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Because of Breast Cancer, I Can't Eat What?

Sunday, May 30, 2010

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If there had been a 12-step program for peanut butter a few years ago, I would’ve found a meeting, plopped myself down in the front row and said, “Hi. My name is Brenda, and I am a peanut butter-aholic.” My habit was so bad, my husband and son would buy their own jars and hide them from me because I blew through at least one large jar a week. No pretense of a sandwich for me. I ate it spoon after spoon, straight from the jar while standing at the kitchen counter.

After my breast cancer diagnosis I consulted a nutritionist and learned about the various sources of protein and decided there was a chance I wasn’t a peanut butter-aholic after all. My copious consumption of peanut butter could have been my body’s way of screaming for more protein. My shame was lifted! <PREVIEWEND> I also learned peanuts were high on the list of foods containing phytoestrogens and were not a good idea if I wanted to lower my risk of recurrence. Because phytoestrogens are thought to bind to the estrogen receptors in our body, and because my breast cancer was fueled by estrogen, I went cold turkey on peanut butter and am proud to say I haven’t had a spoonful since. I have, however, discovered raw almond butter.

Unlike peanut butter, raw almond butter contains no added ingredients or preservatives and has less hydrogenated oils, plus no salt or sugar. Almond butter is full of monounsaturated fats, which are good for your heart and helps control blood sugar, plus it has more calcium, iron and Vitamin E than peanut butter. As my “Type A” self is inclined to do, I took this discovery one step further and became a connoisseur who decided the best raw almond butter was from England and could only be purchased on the Internet. The problem was, by the time I converted English pounds to American dollars, and added tax and shipping, my weekly fix was $30 a jar. A small jar. If that wasn’t bad enough, I recently discovered a terrible new twist to my nut butter saga.

Some phytoestrogenic foods may actually be protective by binding to our estrogen receptors, thus blocking estrogen, which sounds like a good thing, but nobody really knows which ones are the good phytoestrogen foods and which are the bad. Oh, but wait… The plot thickens. Some experts suggest almonds may be as bad for me as peanuts. That may, or may not mean they are on the list of bad phytoestrogen foods, but not knowing, once again, I have gone cold turkey on a beloved nut butter.

Addictions are tricky things: You start small, just a spoon or two, then before you know it, you’ve consumed a whole jar in less than a week. Where will it stop? Will I move on to more addicting things, and what might they be? Is this how addicts become thieves, selling stolen merchandise to supplement their cravings? Sometimes I long for the little girl who ate peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and Campbell’s bean soup while she read Nancy Drew. I’m really glad she didn’t know about peanut butter-aholics and phytoestrogens.


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Reasons Not to Fear Breast Cancer

Sunday, May 23, 2010

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Many of you are just beginning your cancer journey and are feeling scared and alone, wondering if there’s anyone else out there who knows how you’re feeling. I do. I vividly remember not being able to think about anything else, wondering if I would be here next year, or the year after that. I was terrified, panic-stricken and depressed.

I remember cowering in my car in PetSmart’s parking lot, crying hysterically, unable to pull myself together to go in and buy dog food, or get on the highway and drive home. I was desperate to the point of wondering if the lady coming out of PetSmart had any experience with cancer and could empathize with me, maybe put her arms around me and tell me everything would be alright. I watched her get in her car and drive away. She seemed so carefree... so normal, and I couldn't remember a time when I didn't have this out of control desperation like the sky was falling, and it would miss everyone but me. <PREVIEWEND> While I can’t take away your fears, I can give you hope by telling you I am now at a great place in my life. Whenever I say cancer was a gift, and I’ve heard other survivors say the same thing, my husband looks at me like I’ve lost my mind, but it’s true.

Tara Parker-Pope, Well blogs writer for the NYTimes.com, has been collecting cancer survivor stories. I have spent the morning reading their words and have come to the conclusion that for the most part, cancer survivors have two things in common: gratitude and a new found zest for life. Here are some of the common words and phrases I’ve pulled from over 600 stories.

• Life is now a combination of brilliance and gratitude.
• The gift of cancer has changed my life.
• I now look at life through grateful eyes.
• Calmer and filled with more purpose.
• Life is not the same; it’s so much better.
• Cancer’s brought out the best in me and my family.
• I am more myself.
• I look at my family with added perspective.
• I am no longer afraid of death and dying.
• The darkest and scariest time of my life turned out to be a blessing in disguise.
• I love my life!

Cancer is terrifying, but it is also life changing. I’m not saying any of us would have deliberately chosen cancer, but as an instinctual coping mechanism, we have dug deep in search of our strengths and found the gifts cancer has brought us. You are at a crossroads, and many of the changes you incur and the roads you take are a choice. Choose wisely, dear ones, and “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; and in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.”

 

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The Best Bras in the World

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Cynthia Good, CEO PINK Magazine, Susan Nethero, Founder,
Intimacy & Brenda Coffee, CEO, BreastCancerSisterhood.com

Over the years, I’ve owned some great looking bras. Many were lacy; some were see-through and one, bought in Paris, was hand sewn with pearls and looked like something made for Marie Antoinette. I loved that bra, and often thought the only thing I was missing was a powdered wig, lots of rouge and a skirt as wide as the Arch de Triomphe. Since breast cancer, however, I’ve only owned three bras, and two of those were surgical bras with heavy-duty Velcro straps and closure devices like they came from the hardware store. Because my breasts have each gone from zero to forty and back again, bra shopping’s been low on my priority list until reconstruction surgery was over. Now, after ten breast cancer surgeries, I met “the bra whisperer.” <PREVIEWEND>

Susan Nethero, otherwise known as The Bra Whisperer, has an amazing approach to fitting women with the right bra. Susan, and her team of experts, at her Intimacy boutiques around the country can just look at you and instinctively know which bras are best for you. Not better than the one you came in wearing, but better than any bra you’ve ever worn.

From the moment we started, Helen, my fitter, seemed more interested in my back than my breasts. That was surprise number one. Surprise number two was she didn’t use a measuring tape and didn’t care what size I’d been wearing. In a few minutes Helen had gathered together several bras, and each one fit me like it was custom made.

Helen brought in a nude bra with a scalloped edge around the bottom, a black bra with beautifully stitched circular patterns along the straps and a white see-through bra with iridescent swirls scattered across the fabric. The see-through also had a tiny bow in the middle with a pearl on the end of each tie—a bra befitting Madame Antoinette. Then there was the aqua demi-cup with an embroidered rose pattern on the mesh overlay and the purple silk with cream lace. Without fail, every bra Helen brought into the fitting room was perfect on me: The hook and eye strap didn’t ride up in the back, causing the front cups to tilt toward the sun, and the straps didn’t cut into my shoulders. The best part was there was no back fat with any of them: that extra roll that hangs over and/or protrudes under the back strap of our bras, a sure sign to everyone we need to loose a few pounds.

When Helen pulled out a sports bra, I shook my head and said I wore a surgical bra. “My implant dropped midway between where it should have been and my navel,” I told her, “and fearing a third surgery to put it back where it belonged, I wear a surgical bra nearly every day.” In case you’re wondering, breast surgery is not as much fun as you might think, so I’ve made sure the girls are strapped down, buckled up and are not going anywhere, ever. However, after visiting Susan Nethero’s store, my two surgical bras and the one with the ill fitting cups went into the trash. I left Intimacy with nine bras! N-I-N-E!

Whether you’ve had breast cancer, or not, you have to find one of Susan’s many Intimacy stores around the country. Visiting her store was like finding an unexpected oasis in the middle of the Sahara desert. Yes… I realize nine bras are a little over the top, but I was thirsty! Since I have a breast cancer website, do you suppose these bras will be tax deductible?


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Breast Cancer Feet

Sunday, May 09, 2010

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This week I had the pleasure of meeting Taryn Rose, Orthopedic Surgeon and founder of Taryn Rose Shoes. In 1998, Dr. Rose changed the footwear industry by creating a line of comfortable, yet beautiful, handcrafted shoes. I’ve always thought of “comfortable shoes” as being thick-soled athletic shoes or clumsy-looking orthopedic shoes, but Taryn Rose shoes are anything but orthopedic-looking. As we talked, I suggested she consider marketing to the millions of women, like me, who’ve had breast cancer and need comfortable shoes because of peripheral neuropathy. <PREVIEWEND>

Simply put, neuropathy means there’s been some kind of damage to the peripheral nerves that control the feelings in our arms and legs. Chemotherapy, radiation, diabetes and alcohol, are just a few of things that can cause nerve damage, resulting in everything from numbness or a burning “pins and needles” sensation, to weakness and cramping that makes walking painful and, after a few minutes, downright unbearable.

Not all cancer patients develop neuropathy, and the American Society of Clinical Oncology says many recover fully with time. While many of the symptoms I listed are worst-case scenarios, don’t let fear of neuropathy stop you from taking the treatment your oncologist recommends. I was one of the ones who developed neuropathy during chemo. Although most of my symptoms have since disappeared, I still have mild numbness in my fingers and toes, plus it sometimes feels like electrical shocks are shooting down my legs. That brings me back to the shoe thing. Since chemo, I've worn comfortable shoes all the time. They’ve helped my neuropathy, given me better balance and made walking easier. Many of these shoes have been Taryn Rose. My favorites are called Fierce and Ballerina.

Even without neuropathy many of us, especially as we get older, experience trouble with our feet and can no longer wear Carrie Bradshaw’s Sex and the City shoes, or can only wear them for short periods of time. My girlfriend, Gayle, calls them “special event” shoes. Another friend calls them “sit and sip” shoes. I love that term. It conjures up a pretty Southern belle, with honey dripping from her voice who says, “Why yes. I would love another Mint Julep… provided you walk over here and bring it to me!”

Can you imagine Carrie Bradshaw with neuropathy? In the next Sex and the City movie, I think Taryn Rose should be the shoe designer of choice. After all, the last season ended with Samantha’s revelation she had breast cancer. Since Samantha’s character has always been so upfront about everything, she would tell us about the “shoe thing” and sing the praises of Taryn Rose.

So Taryn, for all of the Samantha’s—the breast cancer women of the world—perhaps you can give your next line of shoes names like Strength, Survivor and Sisterhood.


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Beans May Cut Risk of Breast Cancer

Monday, May 03, 2010


Did you know women who eat beans at least twice a week have a significantly lower risk of getting breast cancer than women who don’t eat beans? I didn’t know that, but I would have become a bean if I’d thought it would’ve reduced my risk of breast cancer. Since I couldn’t do that, I now eat plenty of beans in hopes of reducing my risk of recurrence.

My friend and nutritionist, Barbra Swanson, ND, RD, LD, once called herself the “Bean Queen.” In a video for the BreastCancerSisterhood.com, Barbra rattles off types of beans as quickly as Forrest Gump’s friend, Bubba, rattled off shrimp dishes: Pinto beans, black beans, garbanzo beans, chickpeas, adzuki beans, split peas, lentils, black eyed peas, red beans, frijoles, green beans, kidney beans, wax beans, cannellini beans, white beans, navy beans. Barbra didn’t really list all of those beans, but she knows the right foods to eat and why. Since my diagnosis, I’ve learned a lot from Barbra and try to implement some of her wisdom each day. <PREVIEWEND>

Because beans are economical, every culture in history has eaten beans, but let’s not overlook the nutritional elements of beans. Beans are a great source of protein, B-vitamins and iron, plus beans are filling. Beans are also high in fiber, and fiber binds to circulating estrogen, which is important if you’ve been diagnosed with estrogen positive breast cancer. Why? Because excess estrogen is excreted into the bowels (yes, I’m talking about poop, again), and if it sits there long enough, the estrogen is reabsorbed into the body. In other words, since the fiber cleans out your bowels and makes you regular, the estrogen doesn’t stay long enough to be of major concern.

In addition, beans are low on the glycemic index, which means they aren’t high in sugar. That’s also good news for those with estrogen positive breast cancer. High glycemic foods cause our bodies to produce insulin, which promotes cell growth and inflammation and can weaken our body’s resistance to cancer. People who primarily eat beans and a plant-based diet have the lowest risk for cancer, heart disease and diabetes in the world. By the way, if you’ve had estrogen positive breast cancer, you might want to stay away from chickpeas, soybeans, garbanzo, navy, kidney, pinto and fava beans, because they contain phytoestrogens, an estrogen-like substance that acts like the natural estrogen in our bodies.

Even if you haven’t been diagnosed with breast cancer, you might consider substituting beans instead of meat for at least one meal a week. If you’re worried about “gas,” as a result of eating beans and adding more fiber to your diet, add them gradually, or… Get over it! Gas, or breast cancer? It’s not a difficult choice.

To see Barbra Swanson’s videos about beans, nutrition and breast cancer, go to http://www.breastcancersisterhood.com/nutrition-breast-cancer.htm


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